Sharon, Like John just said, attraction marketing is where it is at. If you've ever experienced a referral you'e seen the power of attraction marketing at its most basic form. Attraction marketing is based on you building a relationship with your viewers/readers/ etc..., that shows you are an "expert" in the field/business. Once you've done that, and that is a continual process, you need to have an automatic way to draw people to your blog and website. I talk about this extensively in that free book I mentioned that's on my blog. One of the examples I give is when I used to be the featured speaker for a seminar on Energy Efficient Homes. I never referred to my company once as in "call me", but by the time they hit 2/3 of the way through the seminar, I was their guy. When I got home my machine (it was over 10 years ago) was full with messages wanting to start, not wanting an appointment to discuss a "maybe start", they wanted to start...now. With the internet, SM, specifically blogging and other media, you can accomplish the same effect without having to schedule a formal seminar. I was able to present to 100's of people at these seminars. Online, you present to 100's of thousands. The seminars were scheduled per month, online you do this every day. I've only discussed the most basic points to get started.
Joe Villeneuve
http://3venterprises.blogspot.com/
joe@3venterprises.ws
(link to book intro): http://socialmarketingeducation.blogspot.com/p/introduction.html
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