Hi Linda,
I've been struggling to launch my new web advertising site (http://bungeebones.com) so maybe we can partner? I produce a small script that inserts in your web page. It advertises not just me, but currently 1600 other sites in a neatly organized web directory (a nice feature for your user's enjoyment).
At the same time, your link is displayed in all the other installs and prominently in their sidebar of your category (i.e. the sidebar of their mortgage category). Theirs is displayed in your directory's sidebar of their category.
Everyone else (those who don't install the software) can sign up for free or paid links. If and/or when they ever sign up for any paid advertising you get half their advertising payment FOR THE LIFE OF THEIR COMMITMENT.
Here is the bottom line on what I offer ... you said you have spent a lot of money advertising. While I believe mine will be the most efficient web advertising system yet, it will not replace that expense. Rather, my goal is to recover and recycle that traffic you bought (and weren't able to close) on its way out of your website and then recycle it to those signed up in the directory. I aggregate your exiting traffic with the traffic from the other installations. The bigger block of traffic can be marketed on everyone's behalf. The sites with the installations double as marketing agents, earning commissions (recovering their own advertising expense). There is no one, perfect advertising method.
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